BORN AGAIN
What life experiences deem someone as being born again?
“If men quarrel and one strikes his fellow with a stone or with a fist, and he does not die but falls into bed. If he gets up and goes about outside under his own power, the one who struck is absolved. Only for his lost time shall he pay, and he shall provide for healing.”[1] This is a case when a person hit someone with a blow powerful enough to kill. The perpetrator is held in confinement to see if the victim succumbs to his injury. If the victim is healed, the perpetrator is set free and must pay for medical expenses and loss of earnings.
In describing this case, the Torah uses the term “V’nikah,” which means cleansed or absolved. Elsewhere, the Torah states, “V’nikah ha’ish m’avon,” the man will be free from sin.[2] The parallel terms in these sentences present a lesson. If the sick person rises from his illness, his sins will be forgiven.[3] We see a connection between illness and forgiveness of sins in the sentence, “The One Who forgives all of your iniquities and Who heals all of your diseases.”[4] [5]
Healing comes from Divine Mercy. How does healing bring about forgiveness? Why is the person cleansed from his sins? It is the way of the person who is stricken with illness to daven and do teshuvah. Therefore, his sins are forgiven.[6]
There are three categories of people whose sins are forgiven. 1) A convert 2) A person who marries 3) A person who takes on the role of leader.[7] Why are their sins forgiven? There is a common denominator. In each of these instances, the person becomes like a bri’ah chadashah, a newly born individual.
The convert enters the holy covenant as a new being. Upon marriage, a person joins with another; two halves become a whole, creating a new entity. The person who acts on behalf of others is no longer seen as an individual. Rather he becomes a composite of his constituents.[8]
A person who is healed can also be seen as newly born. When confronting illness, a person is weakened. His mind and his ability to concentrate is limited. His emotions can be overwhelming. The individual can feel drained. Healing injects a new life within him.
In these situations, as these individuals go to a new stage in life, they experience hischadshus, with new powers from Above. New energies and abilities are needed for the new status that has been reached.
The Talmud relates that Rav Zeira wanted to stay out of the limelight. He did not seek to be ordained and shunned positions of leadership. Once he heard the teaching of Reb Elazar that no person rises to a position of greatness unless Heaven forgives all of his sins, he changed his direction and strove to be ordained.[9]
With every step that a person ascends in life spiritually, he becomes to some degree like a new person. He is granted strength to proceed on that level. A person going on an upward trajectory will be given new powers with every step along the way.[10]
Is our idea of moving up in the world going higher spiritually? Do we view accepting communal responsibility as a burden that takes its toll or an opportunity that makes us greater?
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Hershel D. Becker
[1] Mishpatim 21:18-19
[2] Naso 5:31
[3] Ba’al HaTurim Mishpatim21:19
[4] Tehillim 103:3
[5] Nedarim 41a
[6] Meiri Nedarim 40
[7] Midrash Shmuel 19
[8] Maharal Gur Aryeh Vayishlach
[9] Sanhedrin 14a
[10] Darchei Hachizuk Rav Gershon Edelstein Mishpatim 5764
