TO LIFE
Are we satisfied to do that which is right or do we strive for more?
Rebbe Asher Perlow of Stolin (1759-1826) was an early Rebbe of the Karlin Dynasty. He was noted and recognized for offering prayers with passion. His actions align with one of his teachings. It states: “You shall observe My decrees and My Laws, which man shall carry out and by which Vachai bahem, you shall live, I am Hashem.”[1] Simply understood, the sentence directs us how to live, following the dictates of Hashem. However, a deeper message is intended. The Rebbe explained that Vachai bahem, is more. It is a charge to not simply act, but rather to do it with life, excitement, and enthusiasm. What follows is: “I am Hashem,” indicating that the result of such behavior is the Presence of Hashem upon one’s actions.
Giving life is not limited to one’s own behavior. We should always be on the lookout to see how we can give life to others. We have the ability to offer excitement and encouragement which can lift someone’s spirit and infuse a person with life.
Rav Elazar Menachem Man Shach (1899-2001) was a Rosh Yeshivah of Ponivezh and a leader in the schools of Lithuanian teachings. Aside from his role in the Yeshivah and communal matters, people came to him for advice and blessings. A philanthropist, known for his generous support of Torah and chessed institutions, appeared before Rav Shach, escorted by his sons and sons-in-law. In the course of conversation, the man shared that he suffered the loss of his fortune.
Rav Shach told him, “Money comes and money goes. It doesn’t really mean anything. I don’t even have a perutah.”
Rav Shach didn’t stop there. He tried to figure a way that he could lift his spirit. He continued, “You are Chassidim, descendants of Chassidic Rebbes. In your family you have Chassidic Torah scholars. Could you please share a niggun, a song. Maybe you can sing, ‘Tzur Mishelo.’”
They sang with heartfelt emotion and energy. Rav Shach asked them for another song and then another. Then he requested that they dance. The guest danced together with his sons and sons-in-law while they sang, ‘Ana Avda.’ Rav Shach’s grandson joined them, while he looked on from the side, beaming and clapping his hands.[2]
In 1965, Rav Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg (1910-2012) founded Yeshivah Torah Ohr in Yerushalayim. His schedule was full. Besides running the Yeshivah, he was a world-renowned poseik, with people constantly coming to him for halachic rulings.
He once appeared at the Bar Mitzvah of the son of a student of his. It was a freezing cold, snowy day. Many of the expected guests did not show up due to the inclement weather. Rav Scheinberg was already elderly, but came nevertheless.
Upon seeing him, the host was certainly honored. However, he was concerned for the Rosh Yeshivah. He asked why he insisted on coming. There was an Aufruf in the Yeshivah that the Rosh Yeshivah had attended that morning and even spoke there. Why did he come considering the snow and cold?
Rav Scheinberg responded, “To the contrary. It was because of the snow that I made certain to come.”[3]
How creative are we in lifting someone’s spirit? We see the lengths that our Torah giants go to uplift others. How far do we go to bring another cheer?
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Hershel D. Becker
[1] Acharei Mos 18:5
[2] Likras Shabbos Malchesa Acharei Mos p.408
[3] Likras Shabbos Malchesa Acharei Mos p.417
